Newly Divorced in The New Year - Here is What to Expect

Martin Mohr
March 7, 2022

Overcoming the challenges after a divorce is not easy, and things can get even more unbearable if you are newly divorced in the new year. However, the New Year is also a great time to set new goals and focus on improving your life. Managing your expectations allows you to handle the challenges effectively and move on with life faster. Here is what to expect after your divorce in the new year.

  1. You Might Feel Like You Are at a Disadvantage

Whether you are the one who initiated the divorce or the one who has been left, you might feel disadvantaged. If you are driving the divorce, you may feel like your ex is trying to undermine your efforts to move on after the divorce. If you have been left, it may be difficult to handle the shock, grief, and feelings of guilt after the divorce.

Turn your feeling of disadvantage to your advantage. Take this time to focus on yourself, let yourself grieve the loss of your marriage, and begin making plans for your new life. Visualize and focus on your future, and express gratitude for the new opportunities that await. By shifting your mindset, you can find a path forward in the new year.

  1. Financial Disputes May Arise

Although divorce may be emotionally challenging, several financial disputes may arise. The court will divide the assets, liabilities, and income between you and your partner if you are unable to agree in mediation. Also, issues like child support and distribution of liabilities may arise after finalizing the divorce process.

If you and your ex-spouse cannot come to a solution regarding the division of your assets and ongoing financial obligations, you may need to resolve the issue in court. The process could take a long time - up to several years. 

But even as you begin the divorce process, you may find that your standard of living has changed overnight. Without sharing costs of a home, bills, groceries, and more, separation can wreak havoc on your personal finances. Finding a way to manage this new financial situation will help you even after the divorce is finalized and settle into a comfortable life at home.

  1. Expect Change

After the divorce, your standard of living and social network may be affected. If you had a connection with your ex-spouse, it might be hard to imagine that they may no longer be there for you. Since these changes are inevitable, you may want to think of how you can cope with the separation. For example, you could:

  • Acknowledge that it is normal to feel anxious, confused, and angry
  • Give yourself time to heal
  • Take care of your emotional and physical well-being
  • Maintain a stable routine
  • Explore your interests

With the above tips, you can embrace the change and focus on making the best of a bad situation.

Contact a New York Divorce Lawyer Today

A divorce can have a significant impact on your life. If you have questions about how divorce works or what comes after a separation, we can help you at New York Family Law Group. Our New York divorce lawyers will offer the support you need to navigate the divorce process and protect your interests.

You can also count on us if you need to modify parts of your child custody, alimony, visitation, or parenting time agreements. Contact us online or call us at 718-293-1542 to discover how we can help you through your family law matter.